The Wedding Investment Guide
WELCOME TO THE TAPESTRY COMMUNITY
I’m Kate, Founder and Creative Director of Tapestry Event Company—and on behalf of the entire team, we are so grateful you’ve made your way to us.
A marriage is a blending of values, traditions, and families; an expressive tapestry of experiences, adventures, and aspirations woven together to create something deeply personal to you. A wedding is an opportunity to build and share that vision with your community—to introduce loved ones to your unique relationship in a way that feels like home.
That’s why our work is grounded in more than just practical planning, but in building skills that will strengthen your bond in the years following your wedding day. We offer a roadmap to marriage designed for couples who lead ambitious, connected, and passion-filled lives, with planning strategy and coaching underpinned by thoughtful marriage practices.
Our passion? Guiding your mindful planning process to craft an unforgettable launch into marriage.
Our signature style? Honest, warm, and soulful—couples often say it’s like “speaking with old friends.”
Our approach? Modern, flexible, and supportive, attuned to the details that matter most.
The resources we provide encourage independent thinking and help you build meaningful skills in key areas such as communication, budgeting, and conscious partnership. You can expect to reconnect to the joy of your love, align your wedding planning experience with your values, and replace tired traditions with meaningful memories.
Your celebration should feel like home—and we’d be honored to help you build it.
Kate, Dante, Sarah, Kerri, Corrinne, Katie, Amelia, and Tessarae.
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The Tapestry Experience
Deep, authentic connection is our specialty. That’s why we become your trusted friends and advocates in the year leading up to your big day. Our priority is to “get you”—what lights you up and the moments that make you pause—and to infuse those details into your celebration.
When you work with us, you won’t be stuck in your inbox. Our process is filled with joy, passion, and heart, even amidst all the practical “to-dos” that come before your “I do’s.” Asking the right questions is key to making sure your values remain at the center of every investment decision—we’re never afraid to dive deep. We honor your busy schedules and direct your energy where it’s needed most, so that you can step away from the planning and focus on LIVING.
What We Stand For
We are rabble-rousing tradition-shapers and we embrace your unique brand of love. You don't hire us to turn you into something you aren't: you hire us to celebrate who you already are and to share that with your people. We welcome, affirm, and CELEBRATE all LGBTQIA+ forms of love and relationships—in fact, half of our team members identify as queer! We welcome couples from all cultures, religions, abilities, and backgrounds, and always look forward to the learning and creativity that come with curating these experiences.
The Investment
How can we support your path to marriage?
Tapestry packages are curated to offer a holistic, guided, and soulful approach to your planning journey. Our services are priced as a percentage of your total event budget—see our FAQ’s at the bottom of the page for more details.
All packages include 1 Lead Coordinator, 1 Assistant Coordinator, and a customized Tapestry Planning Portal.
Full Planning + Design
Starting at $10,000 / Avg. investment $13,500
Our signature service for couples seeking a robust, all-encompassing relationship with our planning team to support every facet of their journey to marriage. We define your values, align your investments accordingly, and build a vision and team that artistically represents your hearts.
Includes:
Venue selection
Monthly planning meetings
Budget management
Event design and mood board
Comprehensive vendor recommendations and management
10 hours of on-site wedding coverage
1 hour of rehearsal dinner coverage
A Destination Weekend
Starting at $15,000 / Avg. investment $17,500
For couples who want to contribute ideas and have their voices heard, but prefer to release the practical “management” aspects of planning to trusted professionals. You bring the vision, we’ll take the lead and follow through—so you can step back and embrace the joy of this season together, and look forward to an unforgettable weekend with the humans you love most.
Includes:
Venue selection
Travel planning
Monthly planning meetings
Budget management
Event design and mood board
Comprehensive vendor recommendations and management
Guest communication guide
10 hours of on-site wedding coverage
1 hour of rehearsal dinner coverage
8 additional hours available the day before and/or after to manage a weekend affair
Partial Planning + Design
Starting at $6,500 / Avg. investment $8,500
For couples who feel confident they can hold themselves accountable for their end of the relationship, but know they’d benefit from a planning partner to help hash out the big picture deliverables and organize the details. This is our base package, with room to add extra support à la carte throughout our time together.
Includes:
Up to 6 planning meetings
Event design, mood board, and floor plans
3 custom vendor recommendations*
8 hours of on-site wedding coverage
1 hour of rehearsal dinner coverage
*Does not include venue recommendations or vetting
Love Notes
“Hiring Kate was hands down the best decision we made during the entire planning process.
Kate took our vague ideas and scattered Pinterest boards and turned them into the most beautiful, seamless, love-filled wedding day we could’ve dreamed of. Every decision she made was rooted in understanding who we are as a couple and what would make our day feel uniquely ours.
From vendor coordination to timeline wizardry, from last-minute logistics to tiny personal touches, Kate handled everything with grace and precision. She anticipated our needs before we even knew what to ask for. We felt supported every step of the way, even from across the country.
If you’re looking for someone who will go above and beyond to make your wedding not just beautiful, but meaningful—Kate is it. We recommend her wholeheartedly and with so much gratitude. Thank you, Kate, for making our dream wedding a reality!”
—Jenn & Dan
They played a crucial role in making our wedding absolutely spectacular. Their organized approach kept us stress-free while planning from overseas. The Tapestry Team impressed us with their positive attitude, kindness, and extensive experience working with top-notch vendors. They truly are exceptional event planners!”
“Working with the Tapestry Team was the best decision ever!
—Brittany & Tatiana
When we didn't know where to turn for vendors, Tapestry was able to provide us with quality recommendations that exceeded our expectations. When we felt unfamiliar or uncomfortable with an aspect of the wedding planning, Kate instantly provided us with information or guidance. And on the day of the wedding…we had literally zero things that needed to be brought to our attention, and felt that we could
just relax and enjoy the weekend.”
“Kate provided exactly the right guidance to us at the right time.
—Allison & Rich
The Tapestry Process
We are intentional about matching you with the right planning support package during our very first consultation, so we can serve you best from the start.
After our consultation, we’ll send you a proposal to pay your deposit, sign the contract, and embark on your journey to marriage. And yes, we do offer payment plans! We typically split our total fee up into three installments, but we are open and flexible to other arrangements on a case-by-case basis.
When you come on board, you’ll be invited to a custom planning portal to familiarize yourself with our communication methods and ensure seamless participation throughout the process.
A few key things we’ll do during our regular meetings together:
Strategize your celebration scope
Allocate your budget
Define your aesthetic
Pick vendors you love
Organize your guest communication strategy
Create your timeline
Map out your event design
Create effective event communications
When you’re ready, book a consultation below so we can get to know you, your vision, and your values.
Frequently Asked Questions
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The Tapestry team boasts a combined 50+ years of experience in retreats, catering, waiting, events, and customer service. Our Creative Director, Kate, has been working in event planning roles since 2013 and brought her expertise to the wedding world in 2016.
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We limit our calendar to 15 weddings per Lead Planner and do not take on more than two projects in a week. This gives us the time and space to craft unique celebrations tailored to each of our Tapestry couples, and to maintain a healthy work-life-travel balance. Our personalized, passionate, and connection-led experiences are why our couples leave us 5-star reviews time and time again!
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Where do we even start? Once you’re part of the Tapestry family, you’ll receive:
Access to our exclusive Planning Portal, designed to house the entirety of your planning process.
Personalized vendor recommendations, ideas, and resources we think you’ll love
Honest check-ins throughout the journey to keep details in alignment
Guidance through tough conversations and challenging decisions
And so. Much. More.
Plus, you’ll get a bonus set of friends who will lead you on this journey from a heart-centered, caring space.
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We are SO fortunate to have a team of experienced, talented, service-minded planners and coordinators who lend their skills to our couples season after season.
Because of the brilliant minds and hands behind us, we staff our events proportionally to your total guest count and the size of your vendor team—but your base package will always include an Event Lead and Assistant Coordinator.
All members of our leadership team have a combination of 3+ years of experience coordinating weddings, site-specific expertise at our preferred venues, and/or Wedding Planning Certification credentials. Our experienced, capable team dynamic allows us to be agile with custom event staffing, provide a high level of care, and deliver confidently on what we promise to our clients.
In addition to our planners and coordinators on staff, we have incredible administrative support throughout the year that provides the latest and greatest in vendor referrals, planning portal updates, special research projects, and high-quality planning products.
We invite you to read our About page to get to know the folks who will make up your Tapestry experience!
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The traditional wedding world operates with an underlying set of assumptions: the way things are supposed to be, the way things have been done, the ways things are expected to pass. Nine times out of ten, there is a prescribed formula for wedding events that fits nicely into the box of how we're used to celebrations looking and feeling—and that can often feel misaligned with your unique vision.
You are not an interchangeable variable in an event-hosting formula: you are the center that the entire event ecosystem revolves around.
We lead mindful inquiry about what matters most to you and support you in declaring those values unapologetically. We develop a budget, a planning strategy, and a vision that integrates your values into a planning path to your celebration. Finally, we place these skills within an intelligent and adaptive project management system that helps you understand how your event ecosystem will come together.
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As our team approaches a decade of professional wedding planning, we have worked with an incredibly diverse array of couples with distinct needs. We’ve created packages to proportionally match our time, energy, and resources with the scope of your project and deliver an impactful, custom-fit planning experience.
Partial planning is the best fit for couples who want:
To own parts of the process
A clear division of labor
To independently achieve planning deliverables
Someone to guide what decisions to make and when
An experienced sounding board for ideas
These couples tend to benefit from a project management style that promises distinct outcomes from their planning team.
Full planning is the best fit for couples who want:
Support in all areas concerning your celebration
A proactive project manager
An effective investment manager
A readily available collaborator
These couples seek a professional who will guide and manage every aspect of their event and create the best outcomes across the board. Their work together is focused on the scope of the wedding day itself.
Full weekend planning is the best fit for couples who want:
Support for a whole weekend slate of activities
Full planning and execution
Everything included in our full planning services
Schedule your consultation now and we’ll help you pick the perfect fit!
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We are your fiercest advocates for executing your event on budget. We will never encourage you to invest beyond your values and your means.
As we help you manage your budget, we will ensure that there are no surprises regarding your investments or our rates. We will help you vet, plan, and manage your investments in your venue, vendors, rentals, professional services, and anything else required to carry out your event successfully. These investments make up your total event budget.
Because we scale our time, energy, and resource investment to your level of service, we charge a percentage of your budget as our planning fee. Depending on which member of the planning team you are working with:
Partial planning rates fall between 9% and 12% of your total event budget.
Full planning rates fall between 14% and 18% of your professional event budget up to $100,000; then 10% of your professional event budget above $100,000.
Weekend planning rates start at 20% of your professional event budget up to $100,000; then 15% of your professional event budget above $100,000.
Any travel fees, additional headcount fees above 100 guests, taxes, and credit card fees are added to that rate.
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We do. All of our couples have a unique location for their celebration, and we love that they defy the one-size-fits-all archetype of weddings. Just as we tailor your planning process, we also customize your travel fee to make sure it’s an exact fit for the adventure required.
For estimate purposes, you can calculate about $2.50 per mile for travel from Seattle to any location in the Pacific Northwest.This fee covers gas, mileage, food, and accommodations when required. Most locations 2+ hours outside the city will also require overnight accommodations and a meal stipend for the team. Out-of-state and international travel is calculated on a case-by-case basis.
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Absolutely! During our consultation, we will determine which package best fits your current needs. If, down the line, you decide you want more support, then we are here for you. We can easily upgrade your original package or add on services à la carte for a perfectly supportive planning experience. We love spending more time and deepening our relationships with our couples!
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Great question! If you need a little extra support, we can add 1-2 meetings à la carte on top of your Homie Hook-up package to advise on your venue search and selection. Please note that this partial planning package does not include vetting, scouting, touring, or otherwise facilitating the venue/location contract.
Our Tapestry Team is unavailable to plan weddings that do not consider the safety and abilities of all guests and vendors. We intentionally work only with couples who support an inclusive experience for all involved, making efforts which may look like (but certainly aren’t limited to):
Communicating clear event expectations to guests
Setting boundaries for healthy gatherings
Proactively creating policies to address disruptive behaviors
Checking in to ensure enthusiastic participation
While we are passionate about the outdoors, we are not exclusively an adventure wedding and elopement company. We are primarily a planning company that works in unique and meaningful spaces that often intersect with Mother Nature, whether they are indoor or outdoor venues, holding both ourselves and our couples to high standards, regardless of the location.
Safety, inclusivity, and care for all