Vow Writing Guide

$19.00

Say what’s in your heart with confidence.

Ditch the boilerplate vows you find on the internet. Our Vow Writing Workbook helps you reflect, digest, and create vows that are uniquely inspired by your relationship.

The Tapestry Event Co. Vow Writing Workbook is a couple-centric guide for writing your marriage vows through discussion and reflection. This workbook is designed to connect you with your partner, to guide discussions around the presentation of your vows, to provide your prompts and inspiration to write your own promises, and to help you think creatively and deeply about what you want them to say. Not only will you create moving commitments to your partner with this workbook, you will also share important conversations that support the health of your upcoming marriage.

Receive a link to digitally download our Vow Writing Workbook booklet. You can print out one for yourself and one for your partner for twice the fun! We offer advice on how to approach writing your vows, what kinds of conversations you can have as a couple to ensure your promises are aligned in the important ways, and how to add creativity and personality that rings authentic to you. This booklet is yours to keep and cherish as you embark upon the years of marriage that follow.

Say what’s in your heart with confidence.

Ditch the boilerplate vows you find on the internet. Our Vow Writing Workbook helps you reflect, digest, and create vows that are uniquely inspired by your relationship.

The Tapestry Event Co. Vow Writing Workbook is a couple-centric guide for writing your marriage vows through discussion and reflection. This workbook is designed to connect you with your partner, to guide discussions around the presentation of your vows, to provide your prompts and inspiration to write your own promises, and to help you think creatively and deeply about what you want them to say. Not only will you create moving commitments to your partner with this workbook, you will also share important conversations that support the health of your upcoming marriage.

Receive a link to digitally download our Vow Writing Workbook booklet. You can print out one for yourself and one for your partner for twice the fun! We offer advice on how to approach writing your vows, what kinds of conversations you can have as a couple to ensure your promises are aligned in the important ways, and how to add creativity and personality that rings authentic to you. This booklet is yours to keep and cherish as you embark upon the years of marriage that follow.

The vow writing guide

A resource for engaged couples eager to write vows with sacred promises that strengthen their bond and reflect their unique relationship.

Instead of giving you a rigid, fill-in-the-blank recipe to follow...

We’re handing you everything you need to create vows you’ll cherish forever.


Inside the Vow Writing Guide, you’ll find:

  • Guided reflections & discussion questions to take the pressure off of knowing where to start

  • Straightforward, loosely-structured outline to build the foundation of your vows

  • “Promise Prompts” to spark writing ideas with ease

  • Sample language & formatting suggestions for inspired, empowered writing

  • Expert resources and recommendations to deepen your relationship and continue exploring your bond

  • Intentional opportunities to be vulnerable and make time for one another

  • Editable document for hassle-free creativity and collaboration

 

“I’ve already recommended it to all my engaged friends!

It was one of the best, if not THE best, investments we made in our elopement day. Truly, THANK YOU for making such an amazing tool for couples.”

– Zoe + Connor

 
A DIY resource with expert-level support

Here’s how we know the Vow Writing Guide is right for you. . .

You’ve spent time searching for the perfect resource to write your vows, but nothing has quite felt right. And at a certain point, it all starts to sound the same.

We know that you so badly crave the guidance of a professional in your corner, even though you aren’t ready to invest in a high-touch service—but guess what?

You deserve to declare your marriage legacy with confidence, no matter your budget.

 
 
 
TRANSFORM YOUR WEDDING DAY WITH VOWS THAT CAPTURE YOUR LOVE STORY

With the Vow Writing Guide in hand, you’ll be able to

  • Define the emotions and sentiments you want to communicate to your partner

  • Speak with conviction, flow, and confidence, trusting your words to convey the story of your love legacy

  • Convey your emotions and commitment, and clarify your promises moving forward

  • Translate your thoughts and emotions into cohesive, impactful words that leave an eternal mark on your partner’s heart

  • Set your marriage up for long-term success, and create a deeper level of connection to take into the rest of your life together

  • Quiet the noise of the world with meaningful conversations that help you return to the heart of your commitment

  • Slow down, pause, and create space to re-align with what really matters

  • Store your notes in one place and eliminate clutter, creating a safe and intentional space to pour out your heart

Because your vows shouldn’t just help you build your perfect wedding day: 

They should build the foundation for your marriage legacy.

 
 

We have worked with hundreds of couples across many celebration styles, cultures, and values and distilled our best advice into these pages. Our work is centered on building a successful foundation for marriage through the event planning experience. We know what an incredible opportunity your vows present in that process. We hope you take advantage of this opportunity to dive deep with your partner by purchasing your Vow Writing Workbook today!

 
 

“I was floored at how our vows turned out.

Engaged friends, I highly recommend getting a copy of Tapestry Event Co.’s Cow Writing Workbook. [My husband] and I worked through it together in the weeks leading up to our 2021 vow renewal, and maybe I’m biased, but I was floored at how our vows turned out.”

– Ardith D.

 
 
 
 

Frequently Asked Questions

Can I print separate copies for my partner and I? 

Yes, but we kindly ask that you limit sharing to you and your partner and refrain from distributing it outside of your relationship.

How long does it take to complete this workbook?

Most couples can complete this workbook in a few one-hour writing sessions, but the time required varies by individual. There is no right or wrong way to complete this! Spend as much or as little time as you feel you need to. 

How far in advance should I purchase the workbook before my wedding?

Again, it depends on the person, but we recommend giving yourself at least 1 month to work through the exercises without feeling rushed. 

Do I need to be a good writer to benefit from this product?

No, we provide you with comprehensive creative writing instruction. No foundation needed.


What if we want someone to review our vows to ensure we’re on the same page, while still retaining surprises?

We offer a Vow Writing Workshop for this exact reason, where you send us your drafts and spend an hour of 1:1 time with one of our expert officiants. We’ll review your vows in advance, offer writing advice, and make sure your vows are aligned where it matters most to you.

 
 
 

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